I get it
You are married and couldn't be happier and as you should you want all your friends to be as happy as you are
We're not (in your view)
Get over it
I have grown weary of hearing about how "if i would just compromise I could have a woman and be happy."
No I wouldn't
I want her to be who she is while I continue to be who I am.
Is that too much to ask?
It appears to work for you... why do I have to do something different?
Sure I want to meet "her" but if I have to change to be "hers" then how much of "me" is she getting?
She needs to want "ME" not "who I could be" or who "she wants me to be"
Sure I am willing to with in reason...
but I am who I am.
Sure I am willing to "change" for some one who will make me a better person but I'm not going to just to make that happen.
If you can't tell I spent the evening hanging out with drunk married women who "can't believe that I am still single"... come on!
I have been single ever since you first met me.
How many of my women have you met?.... zero?
There's a good reason.
At this point introducing you to them would be like having the meet my parents... and if I am not ready for that why should I get your hopes up?
Am I happy for you and your new found love and happiness?
Yes I am.
You two are wonderful together
Stop trying to push your happiness off on those around you...
Yes I would love to meet the woman I have been waiting for... or even the woman I would "change" for... but not on your terms... just mine.
I am happy and content with how my life is at the present...
My life is full enough with out trying to figure out a way to put new loves in it.
Does that sound horrible?
I'm sure it does but I am not apologizing if it.
I am happy.
Please don't disrupt it with how you think I should be
It its meant to be then I will find her.. if not I am pretty happy with how I live my life.
My time my come... and if not I will be happier knowing that I didn't change things just to make it happen.
"She" will happy with me when she finds me... what more does there need to be?